I led a group of men in our church through a study on Spiritual Friendship this summer. We used as a companion guide to the Scriptures David Benner’s book entitled Sacred Companions. He basically contends that every follower of Jesus needs two types of companions in their spiritual journey: Spiritual friends and a spiritual director. The book unpacks what he means by these terms.
Here are the discussion guides that I created for our group. They are in pdf format and are roughly two pages each.
#1 – The Transformational Journey
#2 – The Gift of Hospitality, Presence and Dialogue
#3 – The Ideals of Spiritual Friendship
#4 – Demystifying Spiritual Direction – What is Spiritual Direction?
#5 – Soul Attunement – What do spiritual directors do?
#6 – A Portrait of the Process of Spiritual Direction
Yes its true, in spiritual path, one must have spiritual guru and spiritual friends to share his love and learning.